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Though He slay me, yet will I trust in Him. Job 13:15 What Remains When Everything Falls Away Lord, I feel estranged from my own life. The first half of it feels like another man lived it. I look back and see anxiety running the show. Desire unformed and frantic. A heart chasing what promised relief rather than what could bear weight. I see immaturity not as a moral failure but as a lack of grounding. I did not know how to live inside myself. I did not know how to stay. Even

Discerning the Counsel of God When the Soul Wakes from a Dream Epigraph “Yet I was always in your presence; you were holding me by my right hand. You will guide me by your counsel, and so you will lead me to glory.” — Psalm 73 (Grail Translation) The disciple returned after some days. Not at the hour he usually came. Earlier. When the light was thin and the air still cool. He stood again without speaking. The elder did not look up. After a long while the elder said, St. Arsen

A Dialogue between St. Isaac the Syrian and a Disciple The disciple came to the elder carrying an unspoken weight. He sat, then rose again, then finally remained standing as though afraid to settle. Disciple: Father, you say that the hope of this present life enfeebles the thinking. I feel this weakness in myself, yet I cannot name it clearly. I am not seeking pleasure or ease, and still my heart feels divided and tired. How does this hope weaken the mind? St. Isaac: Sit, chi

A Dialogue with St. Arsenius on Withdrawal, Discernment, and the Mercy That Saves the Heart The disciple came and stood for a long while without speaking. The elder did not look up. At last the elder said, St. Arsenius: Why do you come as one who has already been standing too long? Disciple: Because my heart is tired, father. Not of prayer, but of the noise that follows it. I have tried to remain faithful to what has been entrusted to me, yet I feel myself growing thin. St. A

There are moments when the soul is asked for something that is not sinful, not obviously wrong, and yet feels impossible. The demand itself may come clothed in love, urgency, or authority. Nothing outwardly wicked is required. And yet inwardly the heart recoils. Not from unwillingness, but from truth. The soul knows its own measure. When this measure is exceeded, the signs are subtle but unmistakable. Clarity fades. Anxiety rises. Even simple paths become difficult to discern

A cry from the ground where God alone still acts Lord, it is a new day, and I arrive already spent. The light has not yet done anything to me, and I am tired. My thoughts feel heavy. My heart feels hollow. Desire is thin, almost gone. I do not come with strength. I come because there is nowhere else to stand. I do not ask for this day to make sense. I do not ask to feel different. I do not ask to be spared the weight I am already carrying. I only ask that everything in me, ev

Learning to Live Where the Promise Is Refined (Psalm 119 Grail) Your promise is tried in the fire, the delight of your servant. Not every fire is punishment. Some flames are permitted so that illusion burns away and only what is true remains. The word of God does not dissolve in heat. It is refined. What cannot endure the fire was never the promise itself but the many ways the heart tried to protect itself while holding it. When the promise is tested, delight is no longer emo

Faith in a Fallen World There comes a moment when the mind can no longer carry what the heart is being asked to bear. The news of the world presses in from every side, violence without meaning, corruption without shame, suffering that seems to multiply rather than heal. Even prayer can begin to feel unreal, like speaking a language that no longer touches the ground of lived experience. The soul asks quietly, sometimes with fear, sometimes with anger, Is any of this real? Is G

The Unhurried Rhythm of Divine Providence There is a rhythm in the divine life that refuses haste. It moves with a serenity that unnerves us because it is free of all compulsion. When the Scriptures speak of Christ coming in the fullness of time, they unveil something that governs every hidden corner of the spiritual life. The eternal Son did not tear the heavens open in a display of irresistible force. He waited until the Father willed it. He waited until Israel’s long ache

St. John Climacus writes that discernment is “the mother, guardian, and limit of all virtues,” but that it is born only from humility. This has always unsettled me. I wanted discernment to be born of intelligence, or effort, or profound spiritual knowledge. I wanted it to be earned the way the world earns things: with strategy, with willpower, with mastery. I wanted discernment to be the reward given to the one who tries hardest or reads most or prays longest. But the desert

There is a point in prayer when I can no longer pretend that I am searching for God in some distant place. The truth comes quietly. You have been guiding me from the beginning. You have protected me even when my heart wandered far away. You drew me back from places I could not have escaped on my own. You held me when I did not know how to hold on to You. When I speak to You now and ask for help to stay attentive and without anxiety I know I am not asking for something new. I

“What can bring us happiness?” many say. Lift up the light of your face on us, O Lord. Psalm 4, Grail There are nights when the soul feels like a field of quiet embers. Prayer comes not as triumph, but as longing, a question whispered into the darkness. I know the hunger beneath those words of the psalm What can bring us happiness? Not the labor of my hands, not the work I can point to and say see, this proves my worth. Not productivity, not usefulness, not the praise of thos

The hand of God is on me, heavy, unyielding. Not cruel, but crushing in its love. He has opened something in me I cannot close. A wound that bleeds longing. A wound that makes every breath ache for Him. I feel my poverty like exposed nerve, raw, throbbing, alive. And in this cracked-open place, when I am soft and trembling before Him, the demons come like dogs to blood. They know where He touched me. They smell grace like a wound. They circle, patient, hungry. I do not fear t

The night was long, and the disciple sat in the doorway of his small cell, hands trembling over the beads of his prayer rope. He had prayed, fasted, kept vigil, yet his heart felt like a boat unmoored on open sea. He went to the elder, whose lamp still burned though the stars were nearly gone from the sky. Disciple:  Father, pray for me. I do not trust the steadiness of my own heart. I fear I may fail in what God is asking. Some days I feel strong, clear, called; other days I

“The highest form of prayer is to stand silently in awe before God.” St. Isaac was not speaking about an achievement. He was not describing the fruit of spiritual brilliance or a refined mystical technique. He was naming the moment a soul collapses into truth. When all words die. When self-justifications crumble. When the mind’s scaffolding falls away and there is nothing left but a naked heart trembling in the presence of the One who has always been there. This silence is no

Companion Reflection to "Not Knowing Up From Down" “I trusted, even when I said I am greatly afflicted.” There are moments in the spiritual life when the soul feels as though it is held together only by a single thread. Nothing feels stable. Nothing feels earned. Nothing feels clear. And yet in the midst of that frailty, a strange word rises from the depths of the psalmist’s heart in Psalm 116: “I love the Lord for he has heard the cry of my appeal.”  It is not triumph speaki

A Personal Reflection in the Shadow of Psalm 73 There are days when Psalm 73 feels like it was written for the soul that has grown tired from too many years of wrestling with God, with men, and with the hidden places of the heart. The psalmist begins with a truth he clings to almost defensively: Truly God is good to the pure of heart.  Yet he immediately confesses the fracture beneath that affirmation. But as for me, my feet came near to stumbling. My steps had almost slipped

Hear me, O God. Do not hide from my pleading. My voice rises in the dark where no one answers. My heart quakes within me; fear and desire tear at each other like beasts in a cage. O that I had wings like a dove to fly away and be at rest. So I would escape far away and take refuge in the desert. I want to flee, Lord, flee from the noise, from the endless measuring of my life by others, from the slow suffocation of obedience without clarity. Yet there is nowhere to go. Even if

(Inspired by Psalms 25–28, Grail translation, and the life of St. Paul the Hermit) ⸻ Disciple:  Father Paul, I have come to you as one exiled within his own heart. The silence presses like a weight. The days seem to blur into one another, and I find myself asking, as the psalmist does, “Turn to me and have mercy, for I am lonely and poor.” St. Paul:  My son, the loneliness you feel is not an enemy to be fled but a teacher sent by God. I too fled the cities, thinking I would e