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When the Door Opens
A Visitor Speaks with Abba Arsenius as His Life Draws to Its End “Why are you weeping, Father? Are you also afraid?” “Indeed, the fear which is mine at this hour has been with me ever since I became a monk.” — Sayings of the Desert Fathers, Abba Arsenius A brother came to see Abba Arsenius when the old man was nearing the end of his life. Word had passed quietly among the brothers that Arsenius had become very weak. The man who had once stood in the palace of the emperor now
Father Charbel Abernethy
Aug 247 min read
Keep Only What Can Become Prayer
Surrendering the Histories We Can No Longer Carry “The fire itself will test what sort of work each one has done.” — 1 Corinthians 3:13 There are moments when the whole history of a life seems to gather itself into a single grief. The death of my friend Fr. Drew Morgan opened such a moment for me. I found myself grieving not only the man, but nearly forty years of shared history: the things we loved, the work we undertook, the hopes we carried, the wounds we inflicted and rec
Father Charbel Abernethy
Aug 239 min read
To Pray Is to Shed Blood
When Love Becomes Participation in the Wounded Heart of Christ “To pray for people is to shed blood!” — St. Silouan the Athonite, quoted by Archimandrite Zacharias Zacharou, The Dawn of the Eternal There are words that we understand when we first read them, and there are words that wait for us. They remain somewhere within the heart, perhaps for years, until life itself becomes their interpreter. “To pray for people is to shed blood.” I have known these words of Saint Silouan
Father Charbel Abernethy
Aug 97 min read
Remaining at the Edge of Another’s Sorrow
The Ministry of Presence Among Those Who Can No Longer Be Consoled “Weep with those who weep.” — Romans 12:15 The desert fathers had little patience for sentimentality, especially in the face of suffering. They knew that grief could break a person’s heart open to God or leave him standing in darkness for many years. They also knew that there are sorrows for which there is no immediate remedy. There are losses that do not heal quickly. The death of a child. The slow fading of
Father Charbel Abernethy
Jun 183 min read
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