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Truth Has a Face

  • Father Charbel Abernethy
  • Jan 15
  • 4 min read

Humility, Phronema, and Letting God Lead Us Beyond the Boundaries of Our Own Will



“Have this mind among yourselves, which was also in Christ Jesus.”

Philippians 2:5


Truth is not an idea to be defended. Truth is a Person, and His name is Jesus Christ. He does not submit Himself to our categories, our polemics, or our carefully defended positions. He asks something far more threatening and far more healing: “Follow me.” And to follow Him is not first to be correct, but to be poor in spirit.


Truthful living is humility because humility alone acknowledges reality as it is. Life comes through Him alone. “Apart from me you can do nothing” (Jn 15:5). Not little. Nothing. To put on the mind of Christ is therefore not an intellectual alignment but a dispossession. It means removing every inner obstacle that resists His Spirit’s work. It means allowing the Gospel and the Fathers to judge us rather than serve us. It means preparing ourselves to receive grace in the sacraments not as something owed, but as sheer mercy. It means living from Liturgy to Liturgy, not as consumers of meaning, but as those being slowly re-created.


Yet this is precisely where distortion enters.


We speak often of Truth. We speak of Phronema. We speak of the mind of the Church. But too often it is spoken without simplicity, without fear of God, without love. Detached from humility, Truth becomes a weapon. Phronema becomes a badge. Correctness replaces conversion. And slowly, almost imperceptibly, we grow proud: proud toward others, proud even toward God. We begin to know in advance what God will do, whom He will bless, which paths He will use, which lives He will honor.


This is not zeal. It is control.


The Lord tells us plainly, “Learn from me, for I am meek and humble of heart” (Mt 11:29). He does not say, learn my arguments. He does not say, master my system. He says, learn me. Meekness and humility are not virtues added later to truth. They are the atmosphere in which truth alone can be known.


The desert Fathers saw this danger clearly. Abba Poemen said that a man may speak rightly and still be far from God if he does not speak from compunction. The Fathers feared nothing more than spiritual certainty without repentance. They knew that the demons have theology but no humility. And so they guarded simplicity as one guards fire in the wind.


St. Isaac the Syrian is relentless here. He teaches that humility is the garment of divinity. Where humility is absent, God withdraws: not in anger, but because pride cannot bear His presence. Isaac warns that asceticism, knowledge, even correct doctrine become destructive when they are not soaked in mercy and self-accusation. The sign of true knowledge of God, he says, is that a man considers himself more sinful than all.


This is unbearable to the polemical mind.


The polemical approach to faith narrows God. It reduces His freedom to our frameworks. It assumes that the straight path must always look straight to us. It forgets that the Cross itself was a scandal precisely because it shattered every expectation of how God should act. When we cling to our own will, even when dressed in religious language, we lose docility. We lose trust. We lose the capacity to take up the Cross daily because we have already decided which crosses are acceptable.


St. Paisios the Athonite spoke often about this spiritual blindness. He said that when a person is right in his own eyes, God cannot help him. Not because God is unwilling, but because the heart is closed. God leads such a soul into obscurity, contradiction, or humiliation, not to punish, but to save. Only there does pride loosen its grip.


This is why true Phronema is often hidden.


It may exist in a life no one notices. In someone who has no platform, no authority, no correct vocabulary. It may be found along a path we would never choose, in circumstances we would judge as failure or irrelevance. Because Phronema is not proven by clarity of opinion, but by conformity to Christ. And Christ is known where love endures without recognition, where obedience is lived without reassurance, where the heart remains soft under pressure.


The Lord says, “Unless you turn and become like children, you will never enter the kingdom of heaven” (Mt 18:3). A child does not construct boundaries around how the father may act. A child does not manage the relationship. A child trusts or learns to trust through falling and being lifted again.


This is the challenge placed before us.


To relinquish the myopic vision that comes from clinging to our own will.

To stop defending Truth and start living it.

To allow God to act beyond our expectations and sometimes against them.

To accept that the Cross we are given may not confirm our self-understanding but undo it.


Truth is Christ.

Humility is truthful living.

And Phronema flowers where the heart has learned to say, without conditions and without guarantees: “Let it be to me according to Your word.”

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