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The Word Who Chose Silence

  • Father Charbel Abernethy
  • Dec 25, 2025
  • 3 min read

"Infans", the God Who Does Not Speak



The One through whom all things were made enters the world without words.


The Gospel of John tells us that “In the beginning was the Word” (Jn 1:1), and in the same breath confesses that this Word “became flesh and dwelt among us” (Jn 1:14). What it does not say, yet what the Church dares to contemplate, is that when the Word became flesh, He became infans: the One who does not speak.


The Creator of language chooses silence.

The Logos empties Himself of speech.


St. Gregory the Theologian stands before this mystery and says that what is not assumed is not healed. God assumes not only flesh, but muteness. He enters the human condition at its most helpless point, not merely unable to act, but unable to explain Himself. The infant Christ does not teach. He does not clarify. He does not defend His divinity. He is simply there, entrusted entirely to the love of others.


The Fathers see here not weakness, but divine pedagogy.


St. Irenaeus tells us that Christ “recapitulates” humanity from the beginning. He does not skip stages. He does not redeem us from above, but from within. By becoming an infant, He sanctifies infancy. By becoming wordless, He heals our compulsive need to speak, to control, to justify ourselves before God and one another.


St. Isaac the Syrian goes even further. He says that God reveals Himself most truthfully when He conceals His power. For Isaac, humility is the garment of the divinity. In Bethlehem, God puts on that garment fully. The Word does not argue His way into the world. He does not overwhelm the mind. He waits to be received by the heart.


This is why silence stands at the center of the Incarnation.


The infant Christ teaches not by speaking, but by being received. His very existence asks a question of the human heart: Will you love Me without understanding Me? Will you receive Me without explanation?


The desert fathers understood this intuitively. Abba Arsenius, once a man of eloquence and imperial learning, fled into silence because he had encountered the God who does not speak as the world speaks. “If we seek God with words,” he implies, “we will miss Him when He comes without them.”


Modern elders echo the same wisdom. St. Sophrony of Essex teaches that God is not known through concepts but through presence. He warns that even theology can become a veil if it replaces encounter. Christ as infant stands as a living rebuke to a faith that demands clarity before trust.


Elder Aimilianos speaks of the soul learning to remain before God without movement, like the Mother of God before the Child. She does not question. She does not analyze. She treasures and keeps silence. In her stillness, the Word grows.


This is not accidental. God begins His earthly life the way He desires to dwell in us.


He comes quietly.

He waits.

He does not force speech from us, nor does He drown us in His own.


The infant Christ teaches us that salvation begins where words end.


In a world intoxicated with noise, explanation, and opinion, Bethlehem reveals another way. God saves us not by persuasion, but by proximity. Not by speech, but by presence. Not by argument, but by love that makes itself small enough to be held.


The Word becomes wordless so that our hearts might finally learn to listen.


And if we dare to receive Him, without grasping, without explaining, without filling the silence, He will grow within us, until the Word who once lay silent in the manger speaks again, not to our ears, but from within our very lives.

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