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The Silence That Receives God

  • Father Charbel Abernethy
  • Dec 25, 2025
  • 3 min read

Bethlehem, the Altar, and the Birth That Continues



There is a silence that precedes God, and a silence that follows Him.

Bethlehem belongs to the first. The Eucharist to the second.


The Gospel does not describe the cave as peaceful. It tells us only that there was no room. No explanation, no protest, no commentary. God enters the world not amid arguments or clarifications, but in silence. The Word becomes flesh without explanation. Heaven does not announce itself to the inn, but to shepherds who are already awake in the night.


St. Luke says simply, “She laid Him in a manger” (Lk 2:7). No words are spoken. The Eternal Word is received without speech.


The Fathers teach us to attend closely to this. St. Isaac the Syrian says that God is not known through movement of thought but through stillness of heart, and that silence is the language of the age to come. Bethlehem is already that age breaking into this one. God is not grasped. He is received.


After Holy Communion, the same silence returns.


The liturgy ends its great proclamation. The choir falls quiet. The body remains standing or kneeling, and the soul senses something too full for words. Christ, no longer before us on the altar, is now within us. As at Bethlehem, there is no commentary. No instruction. Only presence.


“I stand at the door and knock,” the Lord says (Rev 3:20). He does not force entry. He waits for the heart to become a cave—poor, emptied, unadorned.


Abba Isaac tells us that when the soul truly receives Christ, even prayer must give way. Words, he says, are for those who have not yet encountered Him. When God is present, silence becomes the truest form of communion. The heart learns to remain still, not out of effort, but because it does not wish to disturb what has been given.


This is why the desert fathers guarded silence so fiercely. They knew that once God has been received, movement of mind becomes a kind of noise. Abba Arsenius said, “Many times I have repented of having spoken, but never of having remained silent.” He was not protecting himself. He was protecting the indwelling Christ.


Modern elders speak the same way. St. Sophrony of Essex teaches that after Communion the soul should descend inwardly and remain there, gently, without images or analysis, allowing Christ to settle within. He calls this “standing before God with the mind in the heart.” Not doing. Not thinking. Remaining.


Bethlehem and the Eucharist share this mystery: God entrusts Himself to human vulnerability. In the cave, He entrusts Himself to the arms of the Mother. In Communion, He entrusts Himself to the frailty of our hearts.


Both demand reverence, not excitement. Stillness, not commentary. Fidelity, not explanation.


The world rushes past Bethlehem. It rushes past the altar too. It does not recognize silence as fullness. Yet the soul knows otherwise. The soul recognizes that something eternal has taken place, and that to speak too quickly would be to step outside the mystery.


“Be still, and know that I am God” (Ps 46:10). This is not a command before effort, but an invitation after gift.


Christ is born in silence.

Christ is received in silence.

And the heart that learns to remain there becomes, slowly, His dwelling place.


Do not hurry away from the manger.

Do not hurry away from the chalice.


The silence that follows is not emptiness.

It is God resting within you.

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